I know that "Truth" is subjective IN THIS WORLD. However, Truth is NOT subjective. Today, I stood up for Truth in a way that I had not planned.
There was an online sale. The sale site crashed from lack of servers compared to the number of shoppers. A few people in my contact group mentioned that the sale site had crashed. NO ONE complained; they just mentioned that the site was down; had crashed.
So....one of the leaders within the group sent a message to everyone that basically told all that, compared to the hurricane or fire victims, this is nothing and that maybe instead of shopping the sale, we should give our money to those victims.
I immediately recognized this as spiritual abuse and spoke out against it right away. This resulted not only in me being publicly criticized, but in the removal of any opportunity to say more on that particular forum, which led to no opportunity to defend myself against public criticism. That amounts to cowardice.
This forum I'm talking about is for a direct sales company that claims to be "faith-based," which is one of the reasons I spent my money on them one day, instead of giving it to hurricane victims, and joined by buying their starter kit and becoming a consultant. I've had a few conflicts since I joined. One unit meeting held women drinking wine and using foul language - then driving home after filling up on wine. When I spoke to that leader, she told me I didn't have to go to her meetings. Ok, that's for sure! I can't approve or support drinking and driving anyway, so I was glad to be rid of that group.
Other conflicts are internal. All the training we get is geared toward sales, of course, as it should be, but its disguised as "relationship building." It doesn't really seem like relationship building when I'm building a relationship with someone so that they'll buy something. I'm sure not all direct sales people feel this way, but that's what all the training I've received points to.
So, I have a constant, internal conflict. When I meet people, I want to share the Gospel with them, not sell them tote bags and purses. But, if I share the Gospel with them, then any opportunity to sell totes is then a conflict of interest. Do I want them to look stylish and have the latest things? Of course! But, do I want them wearing that stylish bag to Hell? Uh, no. Do I want to contribute to the family income? Of course! Do I want to compromise the work of the Gospel in my husband's ministry? No way!
I'm sure there's a solution to this, but, for now, I will keep my resolve to stand up against spiritual abuse every single time, without hesitation and without fail, even if that means I don't sell another tote bag ever! This latest conflict over me doing the right thing even when/if someone else - with power to remove my voice - does not agree, is only the latest in a string of conflicts in this world for me. The abuser keeps her voice in all this. No disagreement with her was expressed except by me.