Now, because of Facebook, I get to see her as a young mom herself and her children, even though I've never met them in person, are delightful to see in the pictures she often posts. She's living the dream! When I see her pictures, I also see the setting. Sometimes it's the park. Sometimes it's the living room. Sometimes it's a relatives's house. Sometimes it's a museum or a pumpkin patch. Every time I see those pictures, I realize she's living the dream and I smile.
And, I realize I lived the dream when my kids were little, too. I'm still living the dream. Home with my kids, contentment abounds. I have time to contemplate, time to feel what I'm doing, time to enjoy pictures of a family living the same dream and I rejoice.
Young moms, embrace and live the dream to its fullest. You are not wasting your time, energy and education by staying home with your kids. You are living the dream and it's truly remarkable to see children grow. The dream changes over time, so be prepared. I still have 3 kids at home and still love watching them grow, but now that I have 5 kids out of the house, I'm very acutely aware of the pace in which these last 3 will also leave home.
Nah, this isn't a wake-up call; I've been acutely aware of this for a long time. But, today, I saw pictures of this young woman's children again and I was struck with the joy on their faces and the background of their home in the picture and it reminded me of myself, snapping pictures when my kids were being silly or performing a great feat of jumping over a bucket or some such activity.
How I rejoice with and for this young woman, whom I have the privilege of knowing now, and also had the privilege of knowing when she, herself, was a little girl. Keep on living that dream!
I see the same joy and dream in the faces of my 2 oldest daughters, who are now mothers themselves. My heart aches with longing as they are half a continent away and money is too tight to make enough trips to see them....(not to mention I can't just leave these other 3 kids home and take off like that). So, I depend on pictures and Skype and frequent conversations via phone or text to keep up on what and how they are doing. And I'm ever so thankful that my daughters get to live the dream of raising kids and experience the joy of motherhood.
One never, ever gets over being a mom, no matter how old her kids get. It's a lifelong joy. Right now, I'm on both sides of life with this one. I have 5 kids grown and on their own, but I still have 3 at home. It's pretty cool to get to experience both phases at the same time, and it gives a perspective that I'm finding unique and fascinating.